Every person, at some point, has felt something—whether it’s when eating ice cream, having sex, or driving a car. Emotions, or feelings as they are sometimes called, play a significant part in our personal lives and especially in our relationships. I believe men are emotional beings. The fact that you are taking the time to connect to me and dig into this website shows me that there is a desire to understand yourself and others better. It is your emotions that live behind this outward action you are taking. We have emotions all day long. Often, we don’t understand them, or know properly how to express or use them, who to share them with, or how to share them.
An instance of not knowing how to properly express an emotion is anger. I have discovered in working with men that anger seems to be the primary emotion they “feel”. Really, this anger is often an “emotion-snatcher” that can consume and blind one to other emotions. We can’t control feeling anger, but we can learn to control our actions or behaviors. Learning to have balance and regulation with your feelings is a huge part of finding intimacy, and sexual intimacy in your life. I count it as a privilege to walk beside you as you wrestle with this important place within you.
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