For me, a tenacious lover is someone who works diligently to pleasure their partner through kindness, honesty, and empathy. They desire to understand the partner better and to bring joy into their life through lovemaking, and pleasing their partner. This brings a rush of passion that is intimately poured out on the other—designing magical times around what their partner likes and needs. They do not ignore their own needs, hence the honesty, and understand that sexual intimacy is a give-and-take endeavor involving both people.